1 00:00:15,259 --> 00:00:18,820 Previously on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. I want you to come to the 2 00:00:18,820 --> 00:00:21,840 Hamptons with me. I don't even need to think about it. I will work it all out. 3 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:22,920 Yes, yes, yes, yes. 4 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:26,440 Night one Hamptons. 5 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,260 It feels like we're stepping into Rachel's world. 6 00:00:29,540 --> 00:00:30,620 And I'm obsessed. 7 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,980 Can we hop down some bus? Yes. 8 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:39,100 Okay. That's what the finest egg retrieval. If this doesn't work, I worry 9 00:00:39,100 --> 00:00:40,960 Healy's overall satisfaction. 10 00:00:41,900 --> 00:00:43,320 If he doesn't have a child. 11 00:00:43,770 --> 00:00:44,970 Then what does that mean? 12 00:00:45,210 --> 00:00:47,870 We had two eggs that were retrieved. 13 00:00:48,370 --> 00:00:50,230 Unfortunately, neither has needed. 14 00:00:50,510 --> 00:00:56,730 I wrote down total financial freedom. I still have 15 00:00:56,730 --> 00:01:00,550 civil cases that are in motion. 16 00:01:00,770 --> 00:01:02,210 I don't know what happens to me. 17 00:01:02,670 --> 00:01:06,290 In my 40 years of life, I have never left a dinner party crying. 18 00:01:06,510 --> 00:01:08,390 I thought you ran away from a cult. 19 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,780 I'm not hiding the cult story. 20 00:01:12,020 --> 00:01:13,980 I'm not hiding anything about my life. 21 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:25,040 Now you've got Dorit and Kyle going at 22 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:25,658 each other. 23 00:01:25,660 --> 00:01:27,860 I have Dorit and Kyle? Yes, you do. 24 00:01:28,100 --> 00:01:28,658 Oh, yeah. 25 00:01:28,660 --> 00:01:31,260 You can't be such a wimp. Come on. 26 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,620 No, you're in my home. Don't call me a wimp, please. 27 00:01:36,650 --> 00:01:41,830 If Amanda cannot handle being called a wimp, she's in the wrong group. 28 00:01:46,190 --> 00:01:50,810 In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever. 29 00:01:51,890 --> 00:01:56,050 I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living for me. 30 00:01:56,510 --> 00:02:01,070 I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece. 31 00:02:02,110 --> 00:02:06,050 I might live on a main road, but I'd definitely bring main character energy. 32 00:02:06,530 --> 00:02:08,009 I didn't marry into money. 33 00:02:08,330 --> 00:02:10,050 I manifested it. 34 00:02:12,150 --> 00:02:13,390 Survival isn't my story. 35 00:02:13,930 --> 00:02:15,230 It's my superpower. 36 00:02:16,730 --> 00:02:21,270 I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened. 37 00:02:37,609 --> 00:02:38,609 Hi. 38 00:02:38,830 --> 00:02:39,830 Oh, morning. 39 00:02:40,550 --> 00:02:41,650 How's it going? Good morning. 40 00:02:42,670 --> 00:02:43,670 Yeah. 41 00:02:44,810 --> 00:02:46,570 How are we going to heat up our coffee? 42 00:02:46,890 --> 00:02:48,870 You look really pretty, and you don't need those. 43 00:02:49,190 --> 00:02:51,210 I think you look pretty without any makeup on your face. 44 00:02:51,430 --> 00:02:52,430 Are you okay? 45 00:02:52,910 --> 00:02:56,190 I'm just healed from makeup. Like, you could remove me and my body and 46 00:02:56,190 --> 00:02:57,770 everything else, and I stopped healing from makeup. 47 00:02:58,330 --> 00:03:02,470 So, basically, it's going to take us to get to Montauk. 48 00:03:02,700 --> 00:03:06,380 At least an hour. My friends are going to be great. They're going on at 5 .30. 49 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:10,620 And then we're going to go and have dinner at their lodge in a separate 50 00:03:11,020 --> 00:03:15,820 It should be fun. I'm going to go put my clothes on to go on a run. I'll tell 51 00:03:15,820 --> 00:03:17,220 you what I'm not doing. Running. 52 00:03:24,820 --> 00:03:25,820 Hi, 53 00:03:29,100 --> 00:03:30,100 baby love. 54 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:31,400 How was your work day? 55 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:33,900 It's okay. Yeah? 56 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,360 So this weekend, I'm going to be in Newport with the babies. You're taking 57 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:39,360 big kids camping, right? 58 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,940 Yeah. Yeah, and they start school Thursday. 59 00:03:42,260 --> 00:03:47,480 Right. Five years ago, I was all about building my business and making money, 60 00:03:47,580 --> 00:03:51,480 and I am still all about those things, but family now trumps that. 61 00:03:51,900 --> 00:03:53,520 How do you feel through the dinner still? 62 00:03:54,780 --> 00:04:00,980 If I offered to do a manifestation journaling exercise for free, anyone I 63 00:04:00,980 --> 00:04:01,980 would jump at it. 64 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,160 And it's not that I think anyone should be, like, grateful. 65 00:04:05,820 --> 00:04:06,960 I didn't even get participation. 66 00:04:07,580 --> 00:04:08,840 What am I manifesting here? 67 00:04:09,100 --> 00:04:13,160 If I could have anything, what would I let myself want? 68 00:04:13,820 --> 00:04:16,000 And you want us to write that down? That's what I would do. 69 00:04:16,779 --> 00:04:20,399 I really thought this would be, like, a fun opportunity for them to learn a 70 00:04:20,399 --> 00:04:23,760 little bit more about me. But they don't take me seriously. 71 00:04:24,100 --> 00:04:27,360 They didn't show up. They didn't show up for the event. 72 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:28,599 It's annoying. 73 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:29,600 It's annoying. 74 00:04:38,780 --> 00:04:39,920 Where is Sutton? 75 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,000 Hello. 76 00:04:43,860 --> 00:04:45,040 Well, hello, darling. 77 00:04:45,340 --> 00:04:48,240 How are you doing? I'm good. Oh, good. 78 00:04:48,500 --> 00:04:49,500 Glad to see you. 79 00:04:50,300 --> 00:04:53,860 I've never been to this park. I know. Me neither. I've driven by it 18 million 80 00:04:53,860 --> 00:04:54,860 times. But look at this. 81 00:04:55,280 --> 00:04:56,280 Centennial Road. 82 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,460 And there's a time capsule in there. 83 00:04:58,660 --> 00:05:02,400 Shut up. That is not supposed to be open until 2114. 84 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:04,840 We're not going to see that. 85 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,940 No, girl. We're going to manifest it. Maybe we will. 86 00:05:09,159 --> 00:05:16,100 I've noticed such a stark difference between Sutton 87 00:05:16,100 --> 00:05:18,160 this year and Sutton last year. 88 00:05:21,020 --> 00:05:21,740 She 89 00:05:21,740 --> 00:05:30,400 listens. 90 00:05:30,860 --> 00:05:32,020 She's logical. 91 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:36,500 I mean, even the fact that she's giving advice to Amanda. 92 00:05:37,050 --> 00:05:38,950 About how to talk to Dorit? 93 00:05:39,170 --> 00:05:41,990 Amanda, I'm going to tell you something. You've got to cop to it. You've got to 94 00:05:41,990 --> 00:05:46,850 say, look, I was talking about your marriage without you present. Very good 95 00:05:46,850 --> 00:05:51,150 advice. I'm trying desperately to forget Sutton's track because Sutton Brown I 96 00:05:51,150 --> 00:05:56,010 like. How do you balance that if you manifest to live forever? 97 00:05:56,330 --> 00:05:57,890 I don't understand it. 98 00:05:58,250 --> 00:06:03,250 Here's the thing. What she's doing is mostly telling people how to manifest 99 00:06:03,250 --> 00:06:05,490 money by taking their money. 100 00:06:07,729 --> 00:06:10,470 Okay. Yeah. Okay, let's have a seat. Yeah, okay. 101 00:06:11,730 --> 00:06:14,670 It was cute to see her children. Nice to see her husband. They were the cutest 102 00:06:14,670 --> 00:06:17,930 things in the world. Yes. The house is beautiful. 103 00:06:18,150 --> 00:06:23,510 Yeah. She's so funny, though, how she has to say it has, like, 19 bedrooms and 104 00:06:23,510 --> 00:06:24,910 86 bathrooms. 105 00:06:25,330 --> 00:06:26,850 It always has. 106 00:06:27,230 --> 00:06:30,130 I counted one day. You know this house has, like, nine bathrooms and eight 107 00:06:30,130 --> 00:06:32,730 bedrooms. Like, I've redone, like, 17 rooms or something. 108 00:06:33,690 --> 00:06:34,990 She doesn't need to... 109 00:06:36,210 --> 00:06:40,170 like quantify her money in order to fit in the group. 110 00:06:41,670 --> 00:06:46,570 Amanda wants to prove how far she's come from her childhood and her beginning. 111 00:06:47,090 --> 00:06:52,910 A lot of us come from humble beginnings, but the real merit in it isn't by just 112 00:06:52,910 --> 00:06:57,410 showing off what you've accumulated, but by showing the journey that it took you 113 00:06:57,410 --> 00:07:01,330 to actually get to the place. I have more respect for the journey than I do 114 00:07:01,330 --> 00:07:02,710 destination. I don't know. 115 00:07:03,290 --> 00:07:07,330 Whether or not she wants to feel, look, I've got this beautiful home. I've got 116 00:07:07,330 --> 00:07:10,390 this amazing relationship. I've got these beautiful kids. I've got this 117 00:07:10,390 --> 00:07:12,850 business. So you can't tell me anything. You know? 118 00:07:13,110 --> 00:07:15,270 Otherwise, you're not going to make it very far. No. 119 00:07:15,470 --> 00:07:17,270 We're all trying to help Amanda. 120 00:07:18,190 --> 00:07:20,530 But see, she thinks that she knows better. 121 00:07:20,810 --> 00:07:22,530 And the old adage is true. 122 00:07:22,970 --> 00:07:26,170 You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink. 123 00:07:26,650 --> 00:07:28,130 And she's refusing to drink. 124 00:07:28,350 --> 00:07:31,470 She's got to understand that. She has to. She has to. 125 00:07:32,010 --> 00:07:37,190 But here's the thing. The salad course has barely been placed on the table, and 126 00:07:37,190 --> 00:07:41,870 I get to hear that it is my fault that Dorit and Kyle had that exchange at 127 00:07:41,870 --> 00:07:42,890 dinner. It's my fault. 128 00:07:43,190 --> 00:07:45,130 They still want to talk about the Dorit bullshit. 129 00:07:45,390 --> 00:07:48,730 Kyle had a really strong opinion about Dorit talking about her ex. 130 00:07:49,330 --> 00:07:53,410 I had a moment where I said, like, one thing about it at one dinner party. You 131 00:07:53,410 --> 00:07:54,530 know, I don't know. 132 00:07:54,810 --> 00:08:00,150 There were times after my breakup where I didn't want. 133 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,820 to hear about it. I didn't want to hear other people's opinions. I didn't want 134 00:08:03,820 --> 00:08:04,820 to hear any of that. 135 00:08:05,500 --> 00:08:10,200 You know, Eddie's been through a divorce with young children, and he's a very 136 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:12,620 compassionate, nonjudgmental person. 137 00:08:13,020 --> 00:08:17,960 But even with that in mind, I don't think what I said warrants this level of 138 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,060 scrutiny. You just don't know each other yet. 139 00:08:22,020 --> 00:08:26,420 And maybe she's intimidated because you're younger. 140 00:08:28,559 --> 00:08:32,220 Because I'm young and successful and I'm not financially dependent on a man and 141 00:08:32,220 --> 00:08:35,500 she outsourced her financial well -being to a man and it didn't go well. 142 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,500 What does Dorit care about my opinion? 143 00:08:41,340 --> 00:08:46,120 If she's sure that this is her path and this is what she wants to do, who the 144 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:47,160 f*** cares? Good on your path. 145 00:08:47,420 --> 00:08:48,920 Do your thing. Your life. Whatever. 146 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:54,620 If that was the decision that she made instead of being independent and that's 147 00:08:54,620 --> 00:08:55,439 on her, yeah. 148 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,200 Which is very different from me. Yeah. 149 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:02,360 Coming up. 150 00:09:02,560 --> 00:09:05,400 I'm going to dinner tonight with Sutton and Denise. 151 00:09:05,860 --> 00:09:08,720 I texted with Denise. I cannot believe what she's going through. 152 00:09:09,340 --> 00:09:10,620 It's a tough place to be. 153 00:09:10,940 --> 00:09:12,040 It's just more chaos. 154 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:21,480 Hey, Siri. 155 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,500 FaceTime Erica Girardi new. 156 00:09:29,220 --> 00:09:30,220 Hello. 157 00:09:31,660 --> 00:09:32,159 Looks pretty. 158 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,980 Thank you. So do you. How are you? 159 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,000 I'm okay. 160 00:09:36,180 --> 00:09:37,079 How's it going? 161 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,400 How's the Hamptons? It's so pretty. Look at this. 162 00:09:40,680 --> 00:09:42,100 Wow. Gorgeous. 163 00:09:42,660 --> 00:09:44,220 Right? What have you been up to? 164 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,300 Well, you missed Amanda's dinner party. Oh, yeah. Tell me about that. 165 00:09:47,620 --> 00:09:52,440 It was nice. I mean, then, of course, the conversation turned to what happened 166 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:58,240 at dinner the other night between you, Dorit, and Amanda. And Sutton, you know, 167 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:59,660 told her, listen. 168 00:10:04,140 --> 00:10:06,240 Exactly what you said, have your own opinion. 169 00:10:06,660 --> 00:10:11,340 Stop referring to Kyle because you caused a fight between Dorit and Kyle. 170 00:10:11,560 --> 00:10:14,020 The other thing is that I think it's going to be confusing for Amanda. 171 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,220 Everyone's like, you know, you have to have an opinion, your own opinion. 172 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:21,940 But yet, she may be thinking, here I voice an opinion, and everyone's like, 173 00:10:21,940 --> 00:10:23,520 were you talking about Dorit's marriage? Like, 174 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:26,180 you know, pick a plane. 175 00:10:26,780 --> 00:10:27,780 Like, 176 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,700 she can have an opinion. She didn't say anything horrible. 177 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,560 I think the women are being hard on Amanda. I mean, she's making an effort. 178 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:41,640 So the fact that she's trying to connect with these women in whichever way works 179 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:42,639 for her. 180 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,340 I mean, can you meet her halfway? 181 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,020 How's everything else? Good in L .A.? I'm going to dinner tonight with Sutton 182 00:10:49,020 --> 00:10:50,020 and Denise. 183 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,200 Oh. 184 00:10:51,380 --> 00:10:52,380 Oh, wow. 185 00:10:52,860 --> 00:10:55,760 I texted with Denise. I cannot believe what she's going through. 186 00:11:00,270 --> 00:11:03,830 And then there's that clip going around of her, him saying, I will crush your 187 00:11:03,830 --> 00:11:06,070 hand. I think we're all there for that. 188 00:11:06,330 --> 00:11:07,730 Yeah, at my house. Denise. 189 00:11:08,450 --> 00:11:10,670 Denise, it's so silly to leave like this. 190 00:11:11,410 --> 00:11:12,930 Baby, don't say anything. 191 00:11:13,230 --> 00:11:14,230 We're on the camera. 192 00:11:15,530 --> 00:11:17,610 Baby, don't say a word. 193 00:11:18,090 --> 00:11:21,190 Don't tell me I want to see it. I'm going to crush your hand and solve it. 194 00:11:27,449 --> 00:11:30,430 Last year, Denise reached out to me to meet up. 195 00:11:30,670 --> 00:11:31,670 I'm really sorry. 196 00:11:31,790 --> 00:11:34,790 It's okay. And I'm really sorry about how I acted too because it wasn't fair. 197 00:11:35,070 --> 00:11:38,870 But anyway, I would prefer to leave all of that. We're going to leave it. 198 00:11:39,210 --> 00:11:44,070 Leave that alone. That's all in the past. And I would much rather be here 199 00:11:44,070 --> 00:11:45,330 with you. Thank you so much. 200 00:11:45,590 --> 00:11:49,350 Even when we weren't getting along, Denise reached out to me throughout all 201 00:11:49,350 --> 00:11:50,029 Tom stuff. 202 00:11:50,030 --> 00:11:54,510 And she said, I'm very sorry for you. I know this is very hard. And I really 203 00:11:54,510 --> 00:11:56,630 appreciated that. I never forgot that. 204 00:11:57,230 --> 00:12:00,030 I don't want to see anyone hurt like that. 205 00:12:00,270 --> 00:12:05,010 I look forward to seeing her and just giving her a good old hug, you know? 206 00:12:05,490 --> 00:12:06,770 Well, say hello for me. 207 00:12:07,190 --> 00:12:08,570 I will. I will. 208 00:12:14,670 --> 00:12:21,590 A little more 209 00:12:21,590 --> 00:12:23,870 drama there, I think, and then other than that. Yeah. 210 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:28,220 Everyone, let's get it. 211 00:12:29,020 --> 00:12:30,880 We got to go. We're going to miss the show. 212 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:32,920 Dory. Yeah. 213 00:12:33,540 --> 00:12:37,480 Is that the jacket, Kyle? I'm not bringing one. It's killing my look. 214 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:42,480 Hi, George. 215 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,020 Girls' night out, bitches. Girls' night out. 216 00:12:47,500 --> 00:12:50,800 I'm glad I didn't wear my horse outfit that I was going to wear. 217 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:55,900 Lace, this color lace skirt to me with a G -string lace bodysuit. 218 00:12:57,870 --> 00:13:04,770 I mean, Kyle, that's something I haven't seen you in. I want to see Kyle be the 219 00:13:04,770 --> 00:13:08,430 Kyle that everybody's talking to me about, that, like, does split at, like, 220 00:13:08,430 --> 00:13:09,430 clubs. 221 00:13:12,730 --> 00:13:15,350 I want 222 00:13:15,350 --> 00:13:21,410 to see Kyle, like, 223 00:13:21,430 --> 00:13:23,350 live her best Kyle -ness. 224 00:13:23,810 --> 00:13:24,890 Kyle, get in, honey. 225 00:13:26,410 --> 00:13:29,110 My arm's big enough and my arm's not long enough. 226 00:13:30,750 --> 00:13:32,690 Oh, my God, I love this one. This one's way better. 227 00:13:33,970 --> 00:13:34,970 Oh, 228 00:13:42,830 --> 00:13:44,370 my God, I haven't seen you since Oscar. 229 00:13:44,810 --> 00:13:46,810 I believe in dancing your way through life. 230 00:13:47,050 --> 00:13:50,750 I am definitely not wallowing in my separation. I would say that I've been 231 00:13:50,750 --> 00:13:52,570 for the better part of the last year. 232 00:13:53,340 --> 00:13:56,360 I have traveled. I have been out a ton. 233 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,520 I mean, I've danced more than I've danced in the last 10 years. 234 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:02,980 We don't have this in L .A. I know. 235 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:08,080 And we can't put it, like, on the bag or something now. No, 236 00:14:09,380 --> 00:14:10,880 no worries. Sure, yeah, no worries. 237 00:14:11,560 --> 00:14:12,560 Oh, my God! 238 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:16,240 Oh, 239 00:14:17,340 --> 00:14:18,560 yeah. No, this is amazing. 240 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,180 You guys have to do this a lot? 241 00:14:21,620 --> 00:14:27,970 Never. It's been a long, and I mean long time, since I've been out letting 242 00:14:27,970 --> 00:14:29,830 loose, dancing with the girls. 243 00:14:30,970 --> 00:14:35,570 My single date in New York City, we would go out dancing, the sun would be 244 00:14:35,570 --> 00:14:37,630 coming up, and I'd be walking back to my apartment. 245 00:14:37,890 --> 00:14:38,910 Hi, Girls Summer! 246 00:14:40,070 --> 00:14:41,070 Hi. 247 00:14:45,650 --> 00:14:47,430 Hi. You guys made it. 248 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:49,619 I'm Kyle. 249 00:14:49,620 --> 00:14:51,100 I'm Xander. Nice to meet you. 250 00:14:51,500 --> 00:14:52,500 Great. 251 00:14:54,780 --> 00:15:01,620 Kyle, we've got to do this more. I know. I do not remember the last time Dorit 252 00:15:01,620 --> 00:15:03,980 and I would go out and have fun like this. 253 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:13,880 You've been doing this all night. 254 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:18,980 I feel like the last few years, Kyle has just... Started to take herself too 255 00:15:18,980 --> 00:15:24,340 seriously. But now she just feels lighter. Like the fun Kyle is back. 256 00:15:26,540 --> 00:15:28,280 Thank you. 257 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,340 Coming up. 258 00:15:31,860 --> 00:15:33,140 We don't know you. 259 00:15:33,340 --> 00:15:35,980 So we're getting to know you. We're all curious. 260 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:37,960 We want to know about the Pope. 261 00:15:53,870 --> 00:15:55,610 Pretty. I know. It's so beautiful up here. 262 00:15:56,070 --> 00:15:57,070 Do you want my things in your bag? 263 00:15:57,330 --> 00:15:58,770 What? Why don't you bring your own bag? 264 00:15:59,730 --> 00:16:00,669 Thank you, Mom. 265 00:16:00,670 --> 00:16:01,589 You're welcome. 266 00:16:01,590 --> 00:16:02,890 I thought you were going to get a job. 267 00:16:03,850 --> 00:16:06,610 Um, I am. It's in the work. 268 00:16:07,230 --> 00:16:09,590 Lael, the summer's almost over. What do you mean it's in the works? 269 00:16:10,510 --> 00:16:11,510 It's... 270 00:16:11,710 --> 00:16:15,110 Okay, well, true. Yeah, but I'm not very excited to go back to school. 271 00:16:15,330 --> 00:16:17,030 Why? It's your year. 272 00:16:17,570 --> 00:16:20,970 Because it's just, like, hard, and it's like everyone I talk to is just like, 273 00:16:20,970 --> 00:16:23,690 oh, junior year is, like, the worst year. I know, but you know what? That's 274 00:16:23,690 --> 00:16:24,690 their opinion. 275 00:16:24,990 --> 00:16:28,230 Junior year could be, like, the most amazing year of all time. 276 00:16:28,690 --> 00:16:32,110 For 16 years, Lael has been right by my side. 277 00:16:32,370 --> 00:16:35,930 I have a watch on Lael 24 hours a day. 278 00:16:36,300 --> 00:16:37,740 I mean, I'm tracking that child, okay? 279 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,540 I'm really excited to go on, like, college tours and things like that. 280 00:16:40,540 --> 00:16:41,540 going on a college tour? 281 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,080 I would hope me. 282 00:16:45,740 --> 00:16:49,780 So when she leaves, I mean, I'll still be able to track her. Thank you, 283 00:16:49,780 --> 00:16:54,640 technology. However, I won't be able to check in with her and see her face and 284 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:58,560 see her body language and be able to ask if everything's okay. I just have to 285 00:16:58,560 --> 00:16:59,560 trust her when she tells me. 286 00:16:59,960 --> 00:17:03,540 I don't know how I'm going to deal with that. I need to lay eyes on my girl. 287 00:17:03,870 --> 00:17:05,369 This is nerve -wracking. Is it exciting? 288 00:17:05,869 --> 00:17:09,109 I'm like, oh, I don't want you to go. I don't want you to go. 289 00:17:09,490 --> 00:17:13,550 It was like the other weekend when you were gone, and I was home, and I was 290 00:17:13,550 --> 00:17:15,609 like, oh, my God, is this what it's going to feel like? 291 00:17:16,430 --> 00:17:21,470 You know what happened with the two embryos. They didn't make it, which was 292 00:17:21,470 --> 00:17:22,990 tough for me, you know? Yeah. 293 00:17:24,930 --> 00:17:29,070 We'll see. I mean, the doctor also had some other options. She said we could go 294 00:17:29,070 --> 00:17:30,070 with a donor egg. 295 00:17:30,130 --> 00:17:31,130 Okay. 296 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:34,960 What did you? 297 00:17:35,220 --> 00:17:37,980 I don't know. I don't know. I don't know what to think about that. 298 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:42,780 I think I'm just going to have to wait until we get there and see how I feel. 299 00:17:43,460 --> 00:17:48,900 And I think also the disappointment that, like, I can't use my eggs would be 300 00:17:48,900 --> 00:17:51,980 of the things. You know what I mean? It's not like, oh, I just made a choice 301 00:17:51,980 --> 00:17:54,900 get a donor egg. It's like I had to make that choice because my eggs weren't 302 00:17:54,900 --> 00:17:55,900 good enough. 303 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:01,440 I know a lot of people go through the IVF process. 304 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:04,040 Three, four, five, six, seven times. 305 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:06,780 I have a newfound respect. 306 00:18:07,180 --> 00:18:09,940 It's so devastating when it doesn't work. 307 00:18:10,220 --> 00:18:13,880 At the end of the day, I want to say I did everything I could. Yeah. You know 308 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,820 what I mean? I tried everything and tried and tried and tried again. 309 00:18:18,340 --> 00:18:22,720 And then if it doesn't work, I gave it my all, you know? 310 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:28,700 I know I can do it one more time, but after that, I don't know. It's going to 311 00:18:28,700 --> 00:18:29,700 one step at a time. 312 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:35,300 I mean, you're a great mother to me, so I'm like, for someone, I want someone 313 00:18:35,300 --> 00:18:38,840 else to be able to experience that, you know? Thank you. I appreciate it. 314 00:18:39,060 --> 00:18:40,060 Okay. 315 00:18:57,540 --> 00:18:58,580 The door opened? 316 00:18:59,340 --> 00:19:03,080 That is not safe around here. Can I come in? Your door's open. 317 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,340 Oh, no. It's just for two. You look nice. 318 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,840 It's good to see you. Not much. 319 00:19:09,260 --> 00:19:10,260 Do you want a coffee? 320 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:11,239 I would love something. 321 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,240 Yeah, I'd love anything. 322 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,180 Do you want me to take my shoes off? Okay. No, keep them on. Don't worry 323 00:19:17,180 --> 00:19:19,240 it. Okay, so do you want espresso? 324 00:19:19,820 --> 00:19:20,820 Love an espresso. 325 00:19:20,980 --> 00:19:23,300 Do you want milk with it? Yeah. 326 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:27,020 And I gave you money is my mood. There we go. I love it. I know. 327 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:28,520 Here's the thing with Erica. 328 00:19:29,100 --> 00:19:33,480 I thought she might be someone that I never liked or understood or got along 329 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,660 with. Can you make a mock comment sometime? 330 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,300 Boo, you have to drink alcohol. 331 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:42,840 Kids, man. 332 00:19:43,260 --> 00:19:44,260 Just place it. 333 00:19:44,620 --> 00:19:50,640 Each and every time I get to talk to Erica, I like her more. 334 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,880 I just wrote, this or greater is for me. 335 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,260 Erica really is my student at this exercise. 336 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:58,620 Erica is the star pupil here. 337 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:03,120 She's continually being interested in my business and in my thoughts about 338 00:20:03,120 --> 00:20:05,100 manifestation. I like this woman. 339 00:20:05,820 --> 00:20:06,940 How'd you feel last night? 340 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:09,440 I felt good in moments. 341 00:20:09,820 --> 00:20:15,100 My best advice to you, and you can tell me to off, is that if you say something, 342 00:20:15,360 --> 00:20:19,500 say it right away. And just, you know, yes, I said that. I hear you. Own it 343 00:20:19,500 --> 00:20:22,800 quickly. I've had a hard time in this group because I, my... 344 00:20:23,150 --> 00:20:26,750 personal life was so turned upside down and then there was a lot of judgment 345 00:20:26,750 --> 00:20:29,910 around it. Well, you've known her a really long time. Yeah, and it did not 346 00:20:29,910 --> 00:20:35,510 good at all. Right. It's an odd thing to be vulnerable and to be open, but we 347 00:20:35,510 --> 00:20:36,610 want to know about the cult. 348 00:20:39,690 --> 00:20:44,370 She told us she was in a cult, so she opened up this line of conversation and 349 00:20:44,370 --> 00:20:46,830 questioning. I thought you ran away from a cult. 350 00:20:48,110 --> 00:20:49,570 I did. A cult? 351 00:20:50,190 --> 00:20:51,190 What kind? 352 00:20:51,860 --> 00:20:52,880 It's a whole different story. 353 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,100 They can absolutely get to that anytime. 354 00:20:55,460 --> 00:20:57,180 I mean, I have an open book anytime. 355 00:20:59,300 --> 00:21:01,260 Like, how bad was it? What was it about? 356 00:21:01,580 --> 00:21:03,740 How did you get in? How did you get out? 357 00:21:04,060 --> 00:21:05,060 From the beginning? 358 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,820 Yeah, I want to know what's going on so I can go talk about you later behind 359 00:21:08,820 --> 00:21:09,819 your back. 360 00:21:09,820 --> 00:21:13,440 Amazing. I mean, this is a new one for me. I've known a lot of people. 361 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,500 Well, no, that's not true. I knew someone that was in the cult. That's not 362 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:17,560 Erica. 363 00:21:17,620 --> 00:21:20,240 I do know someone that escaped from that NXIVM. 364 00:21:21,100 --> 00:21:27,420 When I was in high school, I was very involved in my youth group. Wait, did 365 00:21:27,420 --> 00:21:28,420 go out like Christian? 366 00:21:28,620 --> 00:21:32,140 Yes, but my parents were not religious. But I was in a very religious community. 367 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,360 Okay. So I chose religion, essentially. 368 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:41,000 Growing up in the literal buckle of the Bible Belt, in a family that wasn't 369 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:45,900 religious, I was always curious about God. I loved going to church with my 370 00:21:45,900 --> 00:21:47,920 friends. I was kind of... 371 00:21:48,750 --> 00:21:52,590 Exploring what religion and God were to me. I mean, I don't think that was a bad 372 00:21:52,590 --> 00:21:53,870 thing for me. 373 00:21:54,290 --> 00:21:58,070 I moved to Florida where the church is. So wait, this church is in Oklahoma. 374 00:21:58,450 --> 00:22:03,130 It's in Florida. My youth group was in Oklahoma. He started a church in 375 00:22:03,230 --> 00:22:06,230 That's what I'm getting at. So you started and then he moved to Florida. He 376 00:22:06,230 --> 00:22:08,310 moved and a lot of us. A lot of you followed him. 377 00:22:08,550 --> 00:22:12,210 But the longer I was there, the more controlling things got. 378 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,880 Yeah. So he, like, tells people who to marry, who to date, who to be friends 379 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:17,880 with. Get out of town. 380 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:26,300 Absolutely. I remember casually saying to the pastor, you know, I saw my older 381 00:22:26,300 --> 00:22:30,020 sister this weekend, and I told her, you know, that I was kind of feeling blah 382 00:22:30,020 --> 00:22:31,460 and blah about blah and blah. 383 00:22:31,940 --> 00:22:34,200 You would make your sister believe that. 384 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:39,180 Being with Jesus isn't the greatest life imaginable. You're not leading her to 385 00:22:39,180 --> 00:22:42,500 the Lord. Before you know it, you're isolated. You're controlled. 386 00:22:42,740 --> 00:22:44,080 You're kind of off from people. 387 00:22:44,420 --> 00:22:45,780 Financially isolated, too. 388 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:50,140 Well, you're giving money to the church. That's my point. It absolutely controls 389 00:22:50,140 --> 00:22:54,460 you. My whole agenda became not to get in trouble, not to be called into the 390 00:22:54,460 --> 00:22:56,300 pastor's office to talk about whatever. 391 00:22:56,620 --> 00:23:00,240 After about a year and a half, I started to, like, ugh. 392 00:23:01,379 --> 00:23:04,980 think for myself, talk to people outside the group I wasn't supposed to talk to, 393 00:23:05,060 --> 00:23:09,280 call home where my parents were saying, this is a call. I eventually just had to 394 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:10,280 get the balls to leave. 395 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,660 So October 31st, 2008. 396 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:17,140 Halloween. Halloween. I go to church that night so no one will suspect a 397 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,640 I volunteer. You drove off from church. I drove from church to my sister's house 398 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:22,619 in Orlando. 399 00:23:22,620 --> 00:23:25,660 Thank you. When I left, the pastor called me. 400 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,000 Some rage and anger were definitely directed toward me. 401 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,480 It was a shock that you left. How could you? 402 00:23:33,060 --> 00:23:36,440 It was, please don't contact any of the members of the church. We would never 403 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,460 want them to believe that what you did is okay. They looked up to you. 404 00:23:39,900 --> 00:23:44,680 Like, I just wanted to go make something of myself and my life. I'm going to get 405 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,940 my degrees, I'm going to make my own money, and I'm going to help people, and 406 00:23:47,940 --> 00:23:48,940 that is what I'm going to do. 407 00:23:49,220 --> 00:23:54,120 I think about everything I wouldn't have done with my life if I had stayed, you 408 00:23:54,120 --> 00:23:57,480 know? That's what's crazy to me, is I could have just... 409 00:23:57,850 --> 00:24:02,230 kept listening and following that man and i would i would still be there this 410 00:24:02,230 --> 00:24:05,950 the story you need to tell us this is what this group needs to hear about you 411 00:24:05,950 --> 00:24:09,690 and not get stuck on the hey i have an opinion about your marriage you know 412 00:24:09,690 --> 00:24:12,710 i mean like these things are important i see where you're coming from because 413 00:24:12,710 --> 00:24:19,570 you know me more coming up guys i saw this thing on my 414 00:24:19,570 --> 00:24:23,250 feed about erica i'm gonna worry about her what do they think they're gonna get 415 00:24:23,250 --> 00:24:26,200 25 million dollars from her about I don't really understand. 416 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,060 I don't know anything about this. I just want to make sure she's okay. 417 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:42,680 Did you have fun? Oh, my God. So much fun. 418 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:44,360 Look at this sunset. 419 00:24:45,540 --> 00:24:46,540 So pretty. 420 00:24:46,780 --> 00:24:51,460 That was so fun. It's like I haven't been in an environment like this in how 421 00:24:51,460 --> 00:24:52,520 long. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. 422 00:24:54,940 --> 00:24:57,180 The night has just begun, ladies. 423 00:24:57,460 --> 00:24:58,460 Hello. 424 00:24:58,780 --> 00:25:03,300 Girls, we're going to go at your pace tonight. Great. I love that. Thank you. 425 00:25:03,360 --> 00:25:06,020 We're going to do a served salad, a burrata. 426 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,020 Definitely chicken tender. 427 00:25:08,340 --> 00:25:10,700 And make sure there's some french fries, please. 428 00:25:13,380 --> 00:25:14,380 Yay! 429 00:25:15,060 --> 00:25:17,880 Yay! Oh, great. 430 00:25:18,540 --> 00:25:22,760 Sit down, sit down, sit down. Do you guys live here? Where do you guys live? 431 00:25:24,149 --> 00:25:27,630 California. Xander, so you're from Los Angeles? 432 00:25:27,870 --> 00:25:29,690 I'm from the East Coast. I'm from New Jersey originally. 433 00:25:30,150 --> 00:25:30,929 East Coast? 434 00:25:30,930 --> 00:25:33,170 Yeah. I know. I need a cocktail. 435 00:25:36,070 --> 00:25:39,910 It's funny because when I look at, like, our friends in this group, Dorit really 436 00:25:39,910 --> 00:25:41,150 is the one who flirts the most. 437 00:25:41,510 --> 00:25:46,010 But I am an East Coaster all day long. Yeah. She'll, like, tease them. Like, 438 00:25:46,010 --> 00:25:48,670 will meet somebody and talk their ear off. Surprise! 439 00:25:50,970 --> 00:25:52,110 How old are you guys? 440 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,480 26? 441 00:25:56,120 --> 00:25:57,120 I'm 37. 442 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:58,580 Same age as us. 443 00:26:00,140 --> 00:26:06,820 I was at an Oscar party this past year, and there was this guy, and we were 444 00:26:06,820 --> 00:26:09,120 talking, and he asked for my number. 445 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,420 I literally was like, how old are you? 446 00:26:12,700 --> 00:26:14,200 And he was like, I'm 26. 447 00:26:15,420 --> 00:26:21,780 And I was like, oh my God, same, same. I'm turning 27 next month. 448 00:26:22,939 --> 00:26:23,939 I cannot. 449 00:26:25,140 --> 00:26:26,560 Cheers, guys. Cheers. 450 00:26:26,980 --> 00:26:30,140 Thank you so much. 451 00:26:32,020 --> 00:26:36,740 You guys, I saw this thing on my feed about Erica, and I texted her. I'm 452 00:26:36,740 --> 00:26:37,579 about her. 453 00:26:37,580 --> 00:26:42,360 Erica Jane headed to trial over $25 million spent during Tom Verardi's 454 00:26:42,980 --> 00:26:45,140 Wait, wait. I don't understand. She's headed to trial. 455 00:26:45,460 --> 00:26:47,860 What, do they think they're going to get $25 million from her back? 456 00:26:48,510 --> 00:26:49,510 I don't really understand. 457 00:26:49,670 --> 00:26:52,350 I don't know anything about this. I just want to make sure she's okay. 458 00:26:53,270 --> 00:26:57,010 This is obviously new news. I don't know if she knew it was coming or what. 459 00:26:57,450 --> 00:26:59,470 I would not want to have that looming over my head. 460 00:27:00,090 --> 00:27:01,610 She said, I'm okay, thank you. 461 00:27:01,830 --> 00:27:06,930 She would say that. I mean... I'm very worried for Erica. It seems like just 462 00:27:06,930 --> 00:27:10,050 when she gets past one situation, another one pops up. 463 00:27:10,750 --> 00:27:14,210 That? Trying to get back on her feet again, and now she's going to be 464 00:27:14,210 --> 00:27:15,310 crazy amount of money on lawyers. 465 00:27:15,590 --> 00:27:19,070 You hear numbers like this, and you think... What does that mean for her 466 00:27:19,310 --> 00:27:24,370 Forget emotionally, but financially, all of this. It is a lot of weight to 467 00:27:24,370 --> 00:27:26,330 carry. Guys, maybe we'll see you in a little bit. 468 00:27:26,590 --> 00:27:27,710 Good to meet you guys. 469 00:27:28,070 --> 00:27:29,070 Bye. 470 00:27:29,890 --> 00:27:30,869 That's so cute. 471 00:27:30,870 --> 00:27:31,870 That's the cutest voice. 472 00:27:32,070 --> 00:27:33,670 By the way, he had really soft hands. 473 00:27:34,070 --> 00:27:35,070 Who did? 474 00:27:35,430 --> 00:27:39,150 Damn it. Felt like he's not lifting his fingers. That doesn't feel like your 475 00:27:39,150 --> 00:27:40,150 type. 476 00:27:40,570 --> 00:27:43,070 She's like, he gave my type, that's not my type. 477 00:27:45,420 --> 00:27:48,040 Oh, my God, look how beautiful this is. First of all, I don't think I have a 478 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,160 type. I don't have a type. Do you have a type? I don't know. I don't think I 479 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,640 have a type. Let's see who you hook up with next. 480 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,760 I think whoever you're attracted to is going to be your type. I'm only 481 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,739 to my type. 482 00:27:55,740 --> 00:27:59,080 I would 100 % hook up with Brad Pitt now. Are you kidding me? Ew. 483 00:27:59,300 --> 00:28:01,800 Ew. What are you talking about? I would hook up with him right now. Really? 484 00:28:02,820 --> 00:28:04,620 Brad Pitt, Dorit, are you okay? 485 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,400 Ew. Ew. 486 00:28:06,980 --> 00:28:09,160 Are you saying that you don't think you can? No. 487 00:28:09,540 --> 00:28:12,680 Dorit, I told you, we can roll together because you will never like the same 488 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,500 guy. Exactly. I love it. I don't really have a type. 489 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,320 It's an energy thing with me. 490 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,100 Charm, charisma, swag. 491 00:28:19,740 --> 00:28:25,260 But you don't want them to have too much charisma because then... I don't know. 492 00:28:25,940 --> 00:28:28,640 My mother always said... Well, yeah. 493 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,820 My mother always said, don't marry the best looking guy in the room. 494 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,740 Go back to Erica again for a second. Yeah, tell me. 495 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,560 I FaceTimed her today. She went to Amanda's event. 496 00:28:38,900 --> 00:28:41,480 She said that Amanda and Sutton got into a little, like... 497 00:28:41,690 --> 00:28:46,270 Shut up. Sutton did? Sutton a fight? Well, Sutton said to Amanda, you weren't 498 00:28:46,270 --> 00:28:49,110 taking responsibility for having your own thoughts and, like, trying to put it 499 00:28:49,110 --> 00:28:52,510 on Kyle, and then you created an argument between Kyle and Dorit. Shut 500 00:28:52,650 --> 00:28:56,430 Listen, I give Sutton a lot of credit, because this year Sutton is chucked in, 501 00:28:56,490 --> 00:28:57,930 and she really is. 502 00:28:58,170 --> 00:29:02,150 I told you, she came to my house and was like, I need to work on how I react to 503 00:29:02,150 --> 00:29:07,830 things. Sutton and I have really made big strides, and this just continues to 504 00:29:07,830 --> 00:29:09,410 prove how much Sutton has changed. 505 00:29:09,820 --> 00:29:12,520 It really, really makes me excited about our friendship. 506 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:13,760 Thank you so much. 507 00:29:13,860 --> 00:29:16,980 You don't know what happened at Amanda's event. No, I didn't. She was telling 508 00:29:16,980 --> 00:29:19,400 me. The weird thing is about you not being invited. It's weird that you 509 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,360 invited. Do you want me to be honest? I'm not saying you would go, but it's 510 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,880 weird you weren't invited. I don't even have, like, an adverse reaction to her. 511 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,680 I'm a very easy person. 512 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,880 You're a little averse. 513 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,500 I'm a little averse. No, you know what? 514 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:38,600 I literally care more about a f***ing hangnail than I do about that. 515 00:29:39,530 --> 00:29:43,430 I mean, if you're really unbothered by someone, you don't even think about it. 516 00:29:43,510 --> 00:29:45,850 How would we be with her in a group then when we're all together? Great. 517 00:29:46,150 --> 00:29:47,250 Lovely. Great. 518 00:29:47,970 --> 00:29:51,830 Cordial. But for her to be so worked up to say, I care more about a hangnail, 519 00:29:51,850 --> 00:29:53,910 tells me she does bother her a little bit. 520 00:29:54,690 --> 00:29:55,690 Maybe a lot. 521 00:29:55,950 --> 00:29:59,030 Girls, girls, hey, hey, hey, hey. We're going to go dance. 522 00:29:59,270 --> 00:30:00,790 Tonight is not even close to over. 523 00:30:01,350 --> 00:30:03,770 You're free to go home whenever you want, but I'm not letting you. 524 00:30:03,990 --> 00:30:04,990 So we're kidnapped. 525 00:30:05,270 --> 00:30:07,970 Yeah, actually. Like, yes, I'm in charge. 526 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:12,460 Great, let's go. A little more dancing, and then you can go to sleep, okay? 527 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:14,560 Coming up. 528 00:30:14,780 --> 00:30:18,780 So what happened on the 4th? I start crying. I'm like, that's when I really 529 00:30:18,780 --> 00:30:23,760 knew. There's no hope at ever, ever salvaging this narrative. 530 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:40,440 Hi there. 531 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,840 Thanks so much. 532 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,000 Thank you. 533 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:55,560 Wow. 534 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:57,080 Okay, sparkle. 535 00:30:57,500 --> 00:31:01,860 You look good. How are you? I'm good. I thought I'd wear heels tonight. I like 536 00:31:01,860 --> 00:31:03,580 that. Nice to see you. 537 00:31:03,860 --> 00:31:06,260 Rare occasion for a Saturday night out. 538 00:31:07,330 --> 00:31:12,010 I have like an Erica dress situation. I love it. It looks great. It's like this 539 00:31:12,010 --> 00:31:13,009 big. 540 00:31:13,010 --> 00:31:14,670 So when was the last time you saw Denise? 541 00:31:14,930 --> 00:31:15,990 I want to say a year ago. 542 00:31:16,510 --> 00:31:19,550 I sent her a text when everything happened. 543 00:31:19,790 --> 00:31:23,490 Yeah, I did too. I did reach out to her and just like sending you a hug. That's 544 00:31:23,490 --> 00:31:25,250 what I did because there's nothing to say. 545 00:31:25,630 --> 00:31:28,470 No. I mean, it's all so fucked up. 546 00:31:29,070 --> 00:31:30,110 No one deserves that. 547 00:31:31,230 --> 00:31:33,350 No. And I want to hear it from her. 548 00:31:33,550 --> 00:31:34,550 I do too. 549 00:31:34,570 --> 00:31:36,450 I want to know what she has to say about it. 550 00:31:38,050 --> 00:31:39,050 Well, 551 00:31:46,650 --> 00:31:47,770 hi. Hi. 552 00:31:48,030 --> 00:31:49,030 Look at you. 553 00:31:49,190 --> 00:31:50,230 Hey, how are you? 554 00:31:50,930 --> 00:31:52,170 Oh, thank you. 555 00:31:52,770 --> 00:31:55,910 So good to see you. How are you? I'm wonderful. 556 00:31:57,290 --> 00:31:58,750 Not your first rodeo. 557 00:31:59,310 --> 00:32:02,270 Not my first rodeo. It could be better, but... You look good. 558 00:32:02,690 --> 00:32:05,750 Thank you. I lost 200 pounds. I got a facelift. Oh, my gosh. 559 00:32:06,170 --> 00:32:07,390 Did you? You did? I did. 560 00:32:08,150 --> 00:32:09,150 You look beautiful. 561 00:32:09,270 --> 00:32:10,930 Thank you. You did not get a facelift. I did. 562 00:32:11,210 --> 00:32:13,510 Who did it? Six weeks ago. I'm still healing. 563 00:32:14,030 --> 00:32:19,290 Am I going to be the last one? No. No, I did get it, so I'm still numb and 564 00:32:19,290 --> 00:32:20,290 healing. Thank you. 565 00:32:20,670 --> 00:32:24,250 Did they cut your ears off when we stepped in? You know, I asked them. I 566 00:32:24,350 --> 00:32:25,209 do you... 567 00:32:25,210 --> 00:32:27,110 Take the ears off and put them on a table. 568 00:32:27,410 --> 00:32:30,450 No, they just cut everything else around it. 569 00:32:31,690 --> 00:32:33,790 I have done zero plastic surgery. 570 00:32:34,770 --> 00:32:37,750 Zero. And I had my boobs done three weeks prior. 571 00:32:38,090 --> 00:32:40,270 What? You look beautiful. Thank you. 572 00:32:40,510 --> 00:32:41,570 You know what looks nice? 573 00:32:42,230 --> 00:32:45,590 Thank you. I'm very happy about it. I'm still so numb. 574 00:32:45,910 --> 00:32:50,970 Yeah. When I moved to Beverly Hills, it's a lot of boobs and a lot of lip. 575 00:32:52,629 --> 00:32:55,690 and I didn't look like anyone else. 576 00:32:56,150 --> 00:33:02,090 So it did give me this strange feeling of inferiority. 577 00:33:02,470 --> 00:33:04,970 Like, oh, is this what I'm supposed to look like? 578 00:33:05,330 --> 00:33:06,470 That's not what hurt for me. 579 00:33:06,890 --> 00:33:09,190 Oh, I can't, I can't, I can't. 580 00:33:09,390 --> 00:33:11,890 Oh, I haven't had that done. No, I've had it lower done. 581 00:33:12,190 --> 00:33:13,190 Oh, I did the whole thing. 582 00:33:13,390 --> 00:33:18,110 No, I need to do the whole thing. You don't. Well, at some point, yeah. I did 583 00:33:18,110 --> 00:33:20,030 not like the way my neck was looking. 584 00:33:20,410 --> 00:33:24,410 It just wasn't looking youthful. And I was like, you know what? I can do 585 00:33:24,410 --> 00:33:26,250 something about this that isn't that big of a deal. 586 00:33:26,630 --> 00:33:31,090 Father time beats us all. You can inject as many peptides. You can take as many 587 00:33:31,090 --> 00:33:35,010 hormones. You can do as much filler, Botox, Sculptra. 588 00:33:35,310 --> 00:33:36,770 Nothing beats the needle and thread. 589 00:33:37,310 --> 00:33:38,630 Hi. Hey, how are you? 590 00:33:39,010 --> 00:33:40,630 We'd like to start with some drinks. 591 00:33:41,020 --> 00:33:42,700 Do you have Mexican Coke? 592 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,940 Yes, I do. I'll have one of those. I don't drink tequila. 593 00:33:46,140 --> 00:33:50,120 And then... You don't? Anymore. No, it's a new thing. Oh, okay. How about a 594 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,600 mocktail? Maybe I'll try the Cineblanc. Okay. 595 00:33:52,940 --> 00:33:54,640 Perfect. Can I get it with lots of ice? 596 00:33:54,900 --> 00:33:57,000 She likes ice in it. Yeah, I do. 597 00:33:57,300 --> 00:33:59,280 Classy. It's summertime. 598 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:04,780 Whatever. I love that you are getting along so well. We don't know what 599 00:34:04,780 --> 00:34:06,500 happened. Denise, miracles happen. 600 00:34:06,700 --> 00:34:07,439 They do. 601 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,359 No, it's good. 602 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:12,440 We are getting along. It is. It's really good. You know, it's long overdue. 603 00:34:12,820 --> 00:34:15,360 Without the vodka, Sutton is fun. 604 00:34:15,940 --> 00:34:17,040 She is reasonable. 605 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,040 She is not as reactive. 606 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,320 And because of that... 607 00:34:21,690 --> 00:34:22,790 Our friendship has improved. 608 00:34:23,850 --> 00:34:25,270 It's actually fun. 609 00:34:25,590 --> 00:34:29,790 And I can't believe I'm saying that. I think time. Where? Time. Yeah. 610 00:34:30,070 --> 00:34:31,330 A lot of time. And understanding. 611 00:34:31,710 --> 00:34:36,330 Right. I had to come to understanding my own life. You know, and that's like a 612 00:34:36,330 --> 00:34:37,268 hard thing. And I as well. 613 00:34:37,270 --> 00:34:39,850 It's not going through a lot at that time, too. 614 00:34:40,090 --> 00:34:41,230 Yeah. It's still going. 615 00:34:41,790 --> 00:34:43,030 So, still going. 616 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:48,739 I'm being sued by Tom's bankruptcy trustees, both his personal bankruptcy 617 00:34:48,739 --> 00:34:51,219 the Girardi Keys bankruptcy trustees. 618 00:34:51,980 --> 00:34:53,179 And it's exhausting. 619 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:58,140 Yeah. To have all of that out there unresolved. Right. It's draining. 620 00:34:58,340 --> 00:35:02,420 It is draining. This is designed to break me, designed to drive me into 621 00:35:02,420 --> 00:35:05,520 bankruptcy, designed to be annoying. 622 00:35:05,780 --> 00:35:07,620 Let's make an example of let's punish. 623 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:09,740 Nothing about it feels good. 624 00:35:10,650 --> 00:35:14,830 And people have a different perception of things when they have no idea what's 625 00:35:14,830 --> 00:35:16,350 really going on behind closed doors. 626 00:35:16,930 --> 00:35:19,550 Zero, you know? Zero. And I know... Yeah, it's tough. 627 00:35:20,510 --> 00:35:24,590 I wanted to talk to you about that. I wanted to talk to you about the black 628 00:35:24,590 --> 00:35:25,590 I saw. 629 00:35:26,150 --> 00:35:27,150 Oh, Janine. 630 00:35:30,750 --> 00:35:31,850 I'm going to say this. 631 00:35:32,130 --> 00:35:33,750 That can't be a one -time thing. 632 00:35:34,470 --> 00:35:35,470 No. 633 00:35:35,990 --> 00:35:36,990 That's the truth. 634 00:35:37,510 --> 00:35:38,510 When did it start? 635 00:35:39,290 --> 00:35:41,850 It started, I mean, a while ago. 636 00:35:42,050 --> 00:35:44,310 It was a slow burn, though. 637 00:35:44,510 --> 00:35:48,630 You know, my dad asked me, or he said, why didn't you tell me? 638 00:35:49,050 --> 00:35:52,970 And I said, I can't share this and stay with the person. 639 00:35:54,510 --> 00:35:58,310 My first impression of Aaron was just that, oh, Denise is with this guy. 640 00:35:59,470 --> 00:36:00,470 Okay, cool. 641 00:36:00,530 --> 00:36:03,010 She liked him, he liked her, they got together. 642 00:36:03,270 --> 00:36:05,490 So I didn't see any red flags at first. 643 00:36:06,090 --> 00:36:10,450 You know, I did not like the way he spoke to Teddy and I at Sutton's party. 644 00:36:10,810 --> 00:36:12,290 Do you really want to go there? Seriously. 645 00:36:12,570 --> 00:36:14,990 You want to do that? I mean, do you want to go there? 646 00:36:15,250 --> 00:36:17,810 I can go anywhere. I can walk down, around, and backwards. 647 00:36:18,250 --> 00:36:20,430 Anyway, this isn't quite the place. I'm done with this conversation. 648 00:36:20,930 --> 00:36:22,510 You keep poking the bear. 649 00:36:23,410 --> 00:36:26,930 Is that a threat? This is the dumbest thing ever. It's ridiculous. 650 00:36:27,970 --> 00:36:29,350 That I did not like at all. 651 00:36:30,710 --> 00:36:34,050 The other night I had my surgery, the first one. 652 00:36:35,580 --> 00:36:39,080 I had a seven and a half hour surgery, and this was five hours after, and I was 653 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,740 like, you know, after being under anesthesia for that long. 654 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:47,080 Oh, by the way, I had some fat taken out and put in my boobs, so I had a drain 655 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,080 and all this shit. 656 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:52,960 And he ended up helping me to the toilet. I couldn't even walk, you know, 657 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,080 myself. And while I'm sitting on the toilet, he was trying to get my phone, 658 00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,020 he hit me on the side of my head. 659 00:37:00,780 --> 00:37:03,520 My drain hits the toilet paper thing. 660 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:08,920 I'm like, I start crying. I'm like, that's when I really knew. There's no 661 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,480 at ever, ever salvaging this marriage at all. 662 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,380 So I just wanted to get through my surgery. 663 00:37:15,620 --> 00:37:21,240 And I almost rescheduled my second one. And I said, I cannot go through 664 00:37:21,240 --> 00:37:22,860 whatever. That again, yeah. 665 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,340 And here I am. I was like. So what happened on the fourth? 666 00:37:26,820 --> 00:37:28,040 Oh, that weekend was awful. 667 00:37:37,180 --> 00:37:41,840 Awful. Had you just had this done? Yeah. With the post -op? Oh, yeah. 668 00:37:42,100 --> 00:37:45,940 So he's hit you post -op twice. Oh, yeah. With a facelift. 669 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,560 Well, that's why I filed a restraining order and why we're getting divorced. 670 00:37:53,290 --> 00:37:55,770 I told Charlie he's making him look like a saint. 671 00:37:57,950 --> 00:37:59,990 Denise, that's the top five. It's true. 672 00:38:00,250 --> 00:38:01,510 Jesus Christ. I know. 673 00:38:02,070 --> 00:38:03,430 Charlie appreciated it. 674 00:38:03,670 --> 00:38:10,530 You know, Denise, look, I'm really sorry that this has happened to you. Thank 675 00:38:10,530 --> 00:38:11,530 you for saying that. 676 00:38:12,390 --> 00:38:13,390 It's terrible. 677 00:38:13,690 --> 00:38:17,930 You know, Charlie was the first one to text me and you were the second. 678 00:38:18,910 --> 00:38:22,550 When I saw all of this go down, I wanted you to know. 679 00:38:23,260 --> 00:38:27,740 that I'm thinking of you and I only want what's best for you. It means a lot to 680 00:38:27,740 --> 00:38:30,060 me because it is an alone feeling, you know. 681 00:38:30,420 --> 00:38:33,140 You're very lonely. It's a lonely, isolating feeling. 682 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,460 Just so you know, I went through this too. 683 00:38:47,720 --> 00:38:52,540 When I saw all of this go down, I wanted you to know. 684 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,160 I went through this too. 685 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,600 Not with any of my husbands, but recently. Like, it's okay. 686 00:38:59,220 --> 00:39:00,980 No one knows. You know now. 687 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,800 It's all water under the bridge, but it's hard when you're in it. It's hard 688 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:06,800 you're in it. 689 00:39:07,580 --> 00:39:10,360 I met someone, and it started out fun. 690 00:39:10,620 --> 00:39:17,400 There were no expectations of happily ever after, or this is my person, or 691 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,040 any of that, like, bullshit. 692 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,100 And it was several months after. 693 00:39:22,710 --> 00:39:24,930 I met this person that it turned into chaos. 694 00:39:25,970 --> 00:39:30,190 Yeah, it's been a lot. You know, I've tried to pull myself as best up as I can 695 00:39:30,190 --> 00:39:31,250 and keep moving forward. 696 00:39:33,910 --> 00:39:35,030 You have a question? 697 00:39:36,050 --> 00:39:39,630 You're in a good place with me, so you might as well ask it now. No, I was just 698 00:39:39,630 --> 00:39:43,290 going back to when you said this happened to me. It did. 699 00:39:45,470 --> 00:39:46,670 I haven't told anybody. 700 00:39:47,470 --> 00:39:48,770 I am shocked. 701 00:39:49,630 --> 00:39:51,090 Erica is such a fighter. 702 00:39:51,900 --> 00:39:53,260 And so strong. 703 00:39:53,720 --> 00:39:58,680 Never in a million years would I think Erica has endured abuse. 704 00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:03,900 And it's funny, you know, you look at someone like you, and I feel like I'm a 705 00:40:03,900 --> 00:40:08,780 strong woman, too. And then if it can happen to women like us. 706 00:40:09,180 --> 00:40:10,180 Yeah. 707 00:40:10,620 --> 00:40:12,620 It's such a big thing to share. 708 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:15,980 And I don't know. 709 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,440 I'm just overwhelmed. 710 00:40:23,279 --> 00:40:29,440 It doesn't really matter. No, it just happened. It happened, like, not too 711 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:30,440 ago. 712 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:31,980 Oh, so it was after Tom. 713 00:40:32,260 --> 00:40:33,260 Oh, it's after Tom. 714 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,800 It had happened more than once. 715 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,860 Yeah, and then, like, the third time I was just like, this is not for me. 716 00:40:45,180 --> 00:40:48,380 I'm just going to say one thing. I'm going to leave it right here. You have 717 00:40:48,380 --> 00:40:52,720 idea how shameful it is to be the mother of a police officer and have to pick up 718 00:40:52,720 --> 00:40:53,740 the phone and call 911. 719 00:40:55,720 --> 00:41:00,280 And then call your family member and say, I think you should hear this from 720 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:01,940 first before you hear it from anyone else. 721 00:41:02,540 --> 00:41:09,080 I forgot about that. The first time this happened, I was 722 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,220 incredibly calm. 723 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:13,620 And I... 724 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:19,340 Put on my best hostage negotiator voice. 725 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:24,000 And this person was f***ing mad. 726 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:31,120 I was afraid, but I was so numb inside that 727 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,540 I almost felt nothing. 728 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:40,460 No, I did it. Yeah. It's okay. I'm really sorry. It's okay. Yeah, no. Thank 729 00:41:40,460 --> 00:41:41,460 you... 730 00:41:41,940 --> 00:41:46,180 Got out. Yeah, of course. Well, look, it stopped right at the right time. 731 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,300 And that's far and away gone. It is what it is. 732 00:41:50,540 --> 00:41:51,900 And now you're dating someone new. 733 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:59,060 Life goes on. Have you met anyone in the group? Absolutely not. We cannot wait. 734 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,760 Absolutely not. What does he do? 735 00:42:02,460 --> 00:42:03,620 He's former military. 736 00:42:04,060 --> 00:42:05,060 Oh, wonderful. 737 00:42:06,220 --> 00:42:07,220 Yeah, 738 00:42:07,900 --> 00:42:09,400 he's former special forces. 739 00:42:22,060 --> 00:42:25,040 Next time on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 740 00:42:41,150 --> 00:42:42,150 Well, he told me. 741 00:42:43,610 --> 00:42:47,030 Getting hit or choked. There's a lot of shame around that. 742 00:42:47,250 --> 00:42:49,870 You were very lucky that you survived.